Wife and Wife

If you are gay, the topic of marriage can be a powder keg waiting to explode. Especially if it is your own. Experience has taught me that being married to a woman is not always acceptable for a variety of reasons and the objections are often rooted in religion. More on that later. My wife … Read more

Own Your No

Here is a question. How many of you have heard the phrase “setting boundaries” before? I have a sneaking suspicion few have not. I have heard it mentioned on numerous occasions throughout my lifetime, usually while sitting in the therapist’s office or watching Dr. Phil on OWN. What exactly does this mean? Or more importantly, … Read more

“The Gay Thing”

“How can you truly be homosexual if you have been in a heterosexual marriage your whole life?” is the number one question those who come out later in life are asked. The answer to this is simple and may surprise some reading. For any who have wondered the same, grab a snack and continue reading. … Read more

Fight or Flight

For a brief moment I considered naming this blog “Let it Go.” I thought better of it when I envisioned a call from the legal department of Disney coming my way. It happens. Today’s topic is relationships. When you hear that word what is the first thing that comes to mind? Parents? Spouses? Children? Friends? The … Read more